You will always be a part of your child’s life, no matter what the future holds for both of you. Adoptees have a rich heritage with adoptive and biological family members, and all are essential to their life story.
At Texas Christian Adoptions, we understand the anxiety and questions surrounding adoption.
Placing your child for adoption is one of the most important decisions you will make in life. You want to be sure it is the right one.
When you work with us, we will help you create a unique adoption plan that meets your needs. We want you to have peace with your decision. You are free to call or text us at (214) 663-6323 anytime, day or night. We’re here for you.
Choosing the Right Adoption Plan
The type of adoption plan you choose and how you and the adoptive couple communicate with one another help your child understand everyone’s roles. By choosing an open or semi-open plan, you remain in contact with the adoptive family. Here’s how:
A Semi-Open Adoption Plan
Many birth mothers begin their relationship with the adoptive family through a semi-open or mediated adoption. This plan provides greater privacy for everyone involved while still keeping the lines of communication open.
All communication passes through our agency first. By doing so, this plan protects everyone’s identity.
An Open Adoption Plan
Once trust has been established, many birth mothers and adoptive families move to an open relationship. Being in an open adoption means you exchange identifying information such as full names, addresses, or phone numbers.
Ways to Stay in Touch
Regardless of the plan you choose, our agency requests that the adoptive couple send pictures and updates through 18 years of your child’s life. In turn, you can keep the adoptive family informed about your life.
We encourage every birth mother to write her child a letter explaining why she chose to place them and why she selected this particular adoptive couple.
Consider sending your child birthday cards or a special Christmas present each year. If you have other children, include them by having them draw pictures or write letters.
If you live close to the adoptive family, ask to be included in some of their special family events. It’s not unusual for adoptive families to include birth families in birthday celebrations, graduations, weddings, etc.
As Your Child Grows
When your child becomes an adult, the decision to remain in contact is theirs. Hopefully, by then, you have built the type of relationship that makes contact with one another a natural part of each other’s lives.
As you build a healthy, respectful relationship, they will want to have contact with you. You’ve given your child one big extended family with so many to love them.
Contact Texas Christian Adoptions
Do you have more questions about adoption? If so, please don’t hesitate to get in touch with us. You can fill out our confidential online Contact Form or call or text us at 214-663-6323.
We can discuss your situation and determine whether making an adoption plan is right for you. There is a brighter tomorrow.