Resources for Adoptive Parents
Tapestry is a wonderful support system for adoptive families. To find out about all of Tapestry’s upcoming events and activities please visit them at www.tapestryministry.org
Or contact them at firstname.lastname@example.org. Their Conference is coming up in October ..here is their link! http://tapestryconference.org or here to find out more about their different support groups: Tapestry Ministries
Book – Refuel your Wait – Find Hope and Overcome Fear While Adopting – written by Laci Richter
In a world full of waiting, we could all use a little faith. “Refuel Your Wait” speaks to the hearts of waiting adoptive parents, but could also encourage anyone who finds themselves waiting for that next life goal. The text was originally a journal written by the author while she and her husband struggled to start a family. The journal entries including scripture that personally encouraged her in this challenging time is now a book filled with devotions of hope and courage. “Refuel Your Wait” includes heartbreaking and joyful personal stories of infertility, the adoption process, relationships with birth parents, and a medical miracle. This book will ask the reader to turn their wait from a passage of time into an intentional time of prayer, relationship building, and unexpected joy.
Organizations that may be able to help Adoptive Families with the costs of adopting…
Texas Christian Adoptions works hard to keep the adoption placement fee as low as possible for our adoptive families, we realize adoptions can be expensive. For this reason many grant foundations help bear the costs of adoption. Adoptive families residing in Texas may be eligible to receive aid from the state. Texas residents are also eligible to apply for many nationwide adoption grants. If you are thinking about financing your adoption, here are some helpful links that may be instrumental in finding financial assistance. PLEASE NOTE: Texas Christian Adoptions is a “for profit” agency. We have to be in order to operate within the parameters of our Statement of Faith. Make sure the resources that you work with are aware of this.
The Texas Department of Family and Protective Services offers an adoption assistance program to help bear the costs associated with adopting a child with special needs. The program provides Medicaid health care coverage for the adopted child, which includes medical and dental care, eye care, medical equipment and psychiatric health care. Particular one-time expenses are eligible for reimbursement, up to $1,200 per adoption. Monthly payments are also provided to assist families with the child’s needs. Payments are determined based upon the adoptive family’s financial circumstances and the child’s special needs.
ADOPTION GRANTS, CROWDFUNDING, LOANS, FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE
Provides adoption assistance for Christian families with adoption grants through their Christian Family Adoption Grant Fund. Apply at http://www.abbafund.org/how-we-help/ if you desire to become a part of ABBA Fund’s growing community of families.
Boatner Family Foundation
The Boatner Family Foundation is a small group established in The Woodlands, Texas. The group provides grants ranging from $1,000 up to nearly $13,000 and requires that adoptive families have received approval from their agency. To apply, families must turn in a completed application and financial statement. Families must write to the foundation in order to request a formal grant application. Contact: The Boatner Foundation, P.O. Box 132272, The Woodlands, Texas 77393-2272.
Gift of Adoption
The Gift of Adoption awards grants for U.S. citizens adopting domestically and internationally. Applicants must have a completed home study from a licensed agency and submit a completed application, a copy of their most recent tax return and check stubs for all reported income earners, two letters of reference and a $50 application fee. Awarded grants range from $1,000 to $7,500. Apply at http: http://www.giftofadoption.org
Help Us Adopt
Help Us Adopt awards grants in June and December, ranging from $500 to $15,000. Applicants must be U.S. citizens demonstrating that they can provide a stable home environment but are facing significant financial difficulties and need help with adoption expenses. Those applying must turn in a completed home study and cannot be pursuing infertility treatments. Priority is given to those who do not yet have children. Apply at http://www.helpusadopt.org/application.html.
God’s Grace Adoption Ministry
Uses matching grants to help eligible families meet adoption expenses. For more information, visit their website at https://ggam.org/apply/.
National Adoption Foundation
The National Adoption Foundation has helped over six thousand adoptive parents since 1993 to successfully grow their families with financial assistance from grants, loans and various other programs. Apply at http://fundyouradoption.org/adoption-grants/.
Both Hands is a wonderful agency that helps couples afford adoption when they help widows in their community (James 1:27). Learn more about them at www.BothHands.or
Lifesong for Orphans
Lifesong is another wonderful resource that can help you with raising funds, matching grants, interest free loans, crowdfunding pages. Learn more about them at www.lifesong.org
AdoptTogether is a non-profit, crowdfunding platform that bridges the gap between families who want to adopt and the children who need loving homes. When registering as an adopting family, you complete a brief online profile, upload a photo and your AdoptTogether profile goes live. Once your profile is LIVE you are available to generous supporters for encouragement and designated gifts. Your donation will be made to PURE CHARITY, the crowd-funding platform partner of AdoptTogether.org — and will be designated to your selected adopting family. All non-designated donations will go towards the general fund of AdoptTogether.org to help continue our mission.
Show Hope has provided adoption grants to families adopting from the United States and more than 50 countries with agencies that are not for profit. Show Hope only works with non-profit agencies. They would not be able to help you with an adoption from our agency since we are a for-profit agency. Prospective families must have completed “up to date” home study and be working with a licensed adoption agency. A typical grant from Show Hope averages $4,000, taking into account the financial need of the family involved. Families must submit a completed application along with a cover letter, completed questionnaire, statement of faith, net worth worksheet, cash flow worksheet, adoption agency letter, home study, tax forms and letter of recommendation from their pastor. For more information visit http://showhope.org/.
America’s Christian Credit Union (ACCU)
Provides personal loans to Christian couples. For more information visit http://www.americaschristiancu.com.
Lifesong for Orphans
Interest-free loans of $5,000 to $10,000 help couples overcome the initial “cash flow crunch” of adoption expenses. Maximize stewardship by utilizing the Federal Adoption Tax Credit offered by the government. Couples enter a covenant agreement to repay the loan through manageable payments. Repayments are used to help the current needs of new adopting families. For more information visit http://www.lifesongfororphans.org/adoption-funding/adoption-grants/
Non Refundable Adoption Tax Credit
This tax break is for qualified expenses associated with the legal adoption of a child, such as adoption fees, court costs and legal fees.
Income limits: For 2021, the full value of the adoption credit is available to eligible taxpayers with a modified AGI (found on your tax return) of up to $216,660 (up from $214,520 for 2020). The credit is not available at all to those earning $256,660 or more (up from $254,520 for 2020). Eligible taxpayers with a modified AGI of more than $216,660 but less than $256,660 can take advantage of the adoption credit in part but not in full.
Credit limits: The adoption credit is worth up to $14,440 for 2021 (up from $14,300 for 2020).
To learn more: You can use the IRS’ Interactive Tax Assistant, which is a free online tool, to determine if you are eligible for the adoption credit.
Employer Adoption Benefits
Many companies and government agencies are offering adoption benefits to their employees. Check with your employer to find out your company’s policies. Benefits may include:
- Adoption information and referral services
- Legal expenses
- Agency fees
- Medical expenses
- Post adoption counseling
- Paid or unpaid leave time for the adoptive parent
- Financial reimbursement
The Department of Defense Adoption Reimbursement Program reimburses military adoptive parents up to $2,000 per child. The maximum amount available in a given year is $5,000, even if both parents are in the military. Reimbursement is made after the adoption is finalized and if the adoption is completed through a licensed agency. Qualifying expenses include agency fees, home study fees, medical fees, legal fees and more.
A child with disabilities may also be eligible for up to $1,000 a month in assistance under the military’s program for persons with disabilities. In addition, the military’s Exceptional Family Member Program is designed to ensure that families of children with special needs are assigned to duty stations where the child’s needs can be met. For more information visit http://militaryadoption.org/.
A Recommended Adoption Attorney in the Dallas/Fort Worth area…
I have had the pleasure of working with Eric Freeby from Brown Pruitt Wambsganss Ferrill & Dean P.C. for several years now. Mr. Freeby’s practice is devoted almost exclusively to adoption law, which includes independent domestic adoption, agency domestic adoption, international adoption, interstate (ICPC) adoption, special needs adoption, contested adoption, grandparent, stepparent and other family adoptions, as well as Texas Department of Family and Protective Services/Foster care adoptions, mediation, cases involving the Indian Welfare Act and adoption agency representation. Mr. Freeby also practices in the field of assisted reproduction. His contact information is as follows: 201 Main Street, Suite 801, Fort Worth, Texas 76102. His phone number is (817) 338-4888. Or toll free at (866) 433-6952. His email address is email@example.com. You can learn more by going to http://adoptionbp.com
Private Investigator in the DFW area
Sometimes Adoptees who were a part of an adoption that took place many years ago may be in need of learning more about their medical history. If you are looking for your birth family for medical reasons, I recommend Licensed Investigator Kim Deras. Her number is (817) 756-1708 and her email is Kim@hestiainvestigations.com.
A Recommended Adoption Consultant in the Houston area…
Kathie Otte has been involved in the infertility and adoption field since 1980. As a result of her own personal experience with infertility and adoption, Kathie started her business as an Adoption Consultant in 1995, educating, guiding and supporting adoptive couples on their road to adoption. At the request of the Houston Organization for Parent Education, Kathie wrote and developed the curriculum for an Adoptive Parenting Class. She has taught that class for over 15 years, helping families get ready for their long awaited child. Her website is: http://www.adoptionlady.com
You Can Adopt Without Debt – by Julie Gumm
The cost of adopting a child can be expensive, on average, ranging between $20,000 to $50,000, but there are creative and innovative ways for prospective parents to raise funds that will help them cover the costs without creating an unnecessary financial burden or a skyrocketing debt. As a well-respected expert, adoptive parent and author, Julie Gumm’s latest book, You Can Adopt Without Debt: Creative Ways to Cover the Cost of Adoption, (Abingdon Press) offers trusted advice and practical insight on how to pay for adoption.
The Whole Brain Child – 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Childs Developing Mind – Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson
Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson have an ability to translate complex scientific things into words that the rest of us can understand. This is an easy read, especially considering that it is a book about neuroscience. Almost all of us can explain the difference between the left brain and right brain, but fewer can explain the differences between the downstairs brain and upstairs brain; the emotional brain and the logical brain. This book helped me learn about the upstairs brain and downstairs brain. A game changer at our house. In my opinion, there are only three types of people who should read this book; people who have kids, people who work with others who were once kids, and people who were once kids themselves.
I wished for you: An Adoption Story Personalized Book- by Marianne Richmond.
This touching story, available to personalize for your very special boy or girl, is the perfect gesture to show your little one how hard you wished for them and how unconditionally you love them. From award-winning illustrator and bestselling author Marianne Richmond comes a comforting story for adoptive parents and children. Customize this book to tell your family’s unique story and express to your child how blessed you are to have them to love and adore forever. About the book: With sincerity and affection, I Wished for You is a beautiful story about a mother’s unconditional love for her child. Adorable, accessible prose paired with serene watercolor illustrations, this book overflows with love. The story features an inquisitive little bear (your child) who learns from Mama Bear how families come in all shapes, sizes, and colors, but are brought together by caring and devotion. A perfect gift or treasure for all adoptive families, this narrative explores the many questions adopted children have. In a loving and honest way, the story confronts tough questions like Is it okay that we don’t look alike? and Why didn’t the mama that grew me in her tummy wish for me? The story also encourages heartwarming questions like Did you wish for me all day?, Did you wish for me by name?, and What did you do when you first held me?
Personalize this special book and document the story behind your wish that came true, and have it to share for always and forever. It is on sale for $24.99.
I found it on this link: http://www.putmeinthestory.com/personalized-books/i-wished-for-you.html
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